User blog:Manglytyg/Why saying your leaving and returning is not a good idea

You know those ever so evident I am leaving blog posts. Well I have seen so many of them recently about a user who states he/she is going to leave and the next day or so I see them on the wiki again. The question is why is it necessary to write that when your going to come back. Why go throught the trouble of worrying people who care about you when they see the blog. In all honesty I really have never seen the point of a leaving blog to begin with.

Personally the reasons why a leaving blog is not a good idea are well first of all it creates worry among users. Users will take you in your heart deeply and when they see that one of there favourite users is going to leave that user would most likely panick over it. But if the next day they see you again they may have the following reaction, either being happy and hugging you or being angry and confused

Personally I have the second option cause I am angry that the specific user made me worry for no good reason and I am confused cause I felt that the user went back on something they specifically said. Once is great for the mind but if it happens so much after a while it begins to get a bit annoying and a bit unnesesary. Like my friend hux once said,"If your going to be truthful at least don't break my trust and I won't break yours".

I am not saying that users who do this are mistrustful not at all. Its just that the feeling of mistrust could occur when people keep on seeing thease leaving blog posts. I mean lets be honest here do you really want to continually see I am leaving blog posts everywhere on the wiki while the user is still here. Personally I don't cause they are not only unnecessary but they are kind of annoying

I like going on a wiki seeing happiness and excitement not sadness and leaving and thease leaving blogs to me kind of makes me feel both annoyed and a bit sad about them. Personally a little advise is that instead of lying to the person rather write one when you are truley going. Doing that will not only not flood the wiki with them but also help to not create mistrust

I know you guys want to

by Manglytyg